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The internet is now full with various dating products aiming claiming to improve your skills with women, so you get better results in the dating field. There are hundreds if not thousands of them and it’s darn overwhelming. I was confused few years back when found out this niche and now, it’s even bigger than before! The aim of this site was to give good and detail reviews and experiences of the dating advice.

I mean, the sales letters and promotions of those products are powerful. However they usually lack of substance of what exactly to expect of such course or book. How much length, what level is competence, what kind of bonuses you get, how valuable is the information and so on. It’s perfectly normal for a person to go and search for reviews before and if making the purchase. This is where this site comes.

I have to admit, I use affiliate programs to get funding of the site. This means that the links in the reviews and the post as well, are affiliate links. If a visitor likes certain product and buy it, I get a % commission. The price for the buyer is the same and does not increase. I even started a mailing list to promote some of the products.

This is the ultimate system. A person gets a program that helps him, I get a reward for pointing it to him. It’s a win – win. Idealistic, isn’t it?

Perhaps in a perfect world.

“If your goal is to first make profit and then help people, then your system is corrupt” said my friend.

Welcome to the dating and seduction industry.

Here helping you stays in low priority. Selling you drop of false hope for a buckload of your hard earned money comes firsts. You see, this is one of the sacred things for a lot of people who suffer one way or another. They are so desperate, that their rational processes are far behind. They are vulnerable to this. And most gurus and marketers know that very, very well.

They will find out that deep wound of yours, put it so you can see and realize it. Then they will explain you why your wound is so deadly and that it’s not your fault (or it is). After that they’ll let you imagine how great the life would be if that wound is healed. At this point a person is very vulnerable. The glint of hope has grown into a radiant sun. Almost like a miracle.

At this point, when you got someone’s most sacred hope, you can either try to really help him or make an half ass job and take his money. This is where the greater good and the dark side part ways. Many chose the latter.

A lot of those products won’t actually help the client in need. They will give him juice of being understand, make him feel good, give him a bunch of tools he might never be able to use and leave him waiting for the next dose, that’s even more expensive. Like a hope addict being sold by charlatan therapist.

With every little experience I was growing in the internet marketing and the dating field, I was finding out a piece of the real picture. Some guru’s began to seem fake, others awkward, only talk. It was like a big superficial show. Only few were genuine and had that idea of making the world a better place as primary, rather than draining your money and selling the next fifth product ‘you can’t live without’.

I can conclude that in the several few sentences:

• Many dating products are working for specific type of people and not other types. Typically, the person that made the product. Not to mention we all have our issues.
• Many dating products are working for specific type of women and not others.  Typically, the types of women the maker desired.
• Many dating products will sell you little drop of juice and won’t actually help you improve.
• Many dating products are the same ideas you’ll hear from various places, rehashed, reworked, repeated that will give you a feeling of familiarity, yet not help you. They will claim this is the new scientific, unheard before miracle system.
• Many dating products are utter crap of non-sense in a shiny warp.
• Some dating products will improve you a little on a specific point, while leaving your sticking point burning. And a sticking point is the point of failure.
• Very little percent of the dating products are made with the genuine idea of helping you. Yes, there are such.

95% of the things you can get in those products you can learn from bestseller old books.

Note: representing old and gold information in new modern way is actually a good thing if you ask me. Representing that same information as new and your property/invention is not.

This is the cold truth.

One of the biggest problems I see is that a person can get a fake values and goals of this whole seduction thing. He might get infused in the idea that chasing a lot of chicks is cool, when in the past, he didn’t found it way. He might get infused in the idea that having one night stands is the goal of the game, rather than having a good time, no matter what happens.

You see, those things may not only fail to help, but completely mess a person’s visions. Create hell out of a friction is his head without him even realizing it. This shit can mess you up. This is creating problems, not solving them.

My motivations for making this blog are almost gone. The whole concept of the greater good seems like a cover for making money. I don’t like that. It’s against my inner values. It creates inner conflicts knowing that the person you write a post about is having hidden agenda. It goes against the very core of being genuine and helping people.

That said, the blog will remain for some time with some pages edited. After that, it will probably disappear as I stop my work on it.

Wes Man