Hi mate,
Today we’re going to discuss a common … let’s not say problem but a situation that guys have with women. It’s called approach anxiety and basically stops you in your tracks when you’re about to approach a particular attractive girl.
Nasty feeling it is. If you’re reading this the chances are that you already have (or had) such unpleasant feeling. I can write all day about this thing.
Basically the situation comes into this problem. Part of you wants to stay at your spot and don’t risk anything. No chance of rejection, no chance of embarrassment or anything. The focus is on stay. Another part of you wants to go and talk to the girl, to take that chance and manage the approach. The key here is go.
You can’t stay and go at the same time. This drains you completely out of energy making even more difficult to manage the approach anxiety.
(This concept was shown to me by Ross Jeffries in one of his random videos.)
Then how can we cure this? The funny thing is to actually start doing it and it will cure itself. But isn’t that contradictory? How can I approach when I can’t approach?
There is middle ground. I just wrote an article about this on ezinearticles that you can check out. You’ll see few simple ideas that can help you out. After reading, please leave a comment. I’ll appreciate it!
