Inner game

Which terms you are playing on?

February 20, 2010

After reading very interesting post of Carlos Xuma on his blog I decided to share interesting concept with you. Before we continue, check out his post, then come back. Carlos Xuma blog post If you play in the field of  those things listed there (or as he hints – between them) – you’re going to [...]

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Building confidence with competence

February 11, 2010

You know, people usually want to build confidence like it’s something tangible. Almost like going in the grocery store and getting two buckets of it. If it only worked that way… However it works another way that is pretty simple. When you get better with something, you feel more confident doing it! Even if sometimes [...]

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Do you warm up before approaching?

January 26, 2010

A lot of times guys are frustrated because they can’t initiate the approach, the mood, the playful attitude and everything related. Also additional pressure is given by the fact few days ago the guys were in such great condition, their approaches went like crazy! And now they can’t even begin. This is topic discussed many [...]

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Are you faking courage and do you get it in a glass?

January 18, 2010

Have you ever saw some guys that looked totally socially awkward and were obviously faking it to look cool, yet do nothing but just sit there. After taking rather big amount of drinks then they suddenly go to the other end of their behavior getting all pumped up in almost forced aggressive action. I’ve seen [...]

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Scarcity mindset vs abundance mindset

January 12, 2010

“The poor get poorer and the rich get richer.” When I was little I believed in the existing of some sort of supernatural balance. I was convinced that for example a person can’t be both smart and good looking. That you can’t have all. People around me actually supported that concept. Another example – if [...]

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