You see,

Sometimes a person thinks he’s doing the ‘right thing’ and keeps going. A glint of doubt shows occasionally but that man swipes it away, continuing on his path. As he gains experience in the journey, he begins to see more clearly this strange glint. It becomes bigger a bigger until he is able to recognize it.

His gut feeling, which he suppressed, seemed right on the spot. Dead right.

When most guru’s and other dating authorities put making money before helping others, you got a non genuine product. Usually hefty priced. With questionable value and even more questionable results.

I don’t like that. It’s against my personal virtues. More about this in …well… the about section.

In short – I’m not motivated anymore to keep up this. Focusing my worth in other areas will bring far more alignment to my goals.

I’ve made some changes to previous posts to reflect this new mindset. Anyway, the whole idea is now very far away from the perfect meaning. And this will be the last blog posts here.

p.s. actually you can find good information on dating advice. But you’ll have to search.

Hello mates,

As some of you have probably noticed the blog is having some updates recently. I managed to crash if two times, made it ugly for a while, yet it’s still alive and kicking. ( Wes, man, we’re not blind, duh?)

The change won’t be just visual eye candy, optimization or similar superficial. There is something that’s been bugging me since I started blogging here and it’s finally clear to me. The only thing I’ll say is that it will make my work more aligned with myself and my principles, thus more quality and honest.

And keep eating healthy and getting enough sleep. Keep the immune system strong. Winter viruses are on rampage again. The buggers.

Today we’re going to check out the Insider Internet Dating from Dave M. It’s about getting you successful in the online dating sites.

The program itself is a online site with audio and video courses. Once you get access you are able to watch, listen and download the files as you prefer.

The information in the course is presented in short parts (audio or video) which provides easy navigation. Jump in the section or module and you’ll quickly find the desired info.

When you log in, you’ll immediately see the welcome message and the menu. From here you can go to your desired spot. My recommendation is to scroll down and check out the JUMPSTAR2T. After that you can go into each individual module for more detailed information.

The program also comes with a bunch of bonuses by other gurus which you’ll be able to download as soon as you get access. My honest opinion is that some of them are quite good while others are a bit of waste. You can find few golden nuggets there.

You’ll also receive 12 reports on various situations related to the Insider Internet Dating. They are based on weekly basis.

On the top of that, again, each week you’ll receive “surprise” bonus that focuses on a specific situation you may encounter during your experience in the online dating world. Such situations are common things and it can get you stuck if you’re not prepared.

My overall experience with the course is positive. It might not be the panacea that will dominate every dating site out there as Dave claims, yet it’s really effective. Dave made the whole thing with scientific approach. The only part I don’t like is faking “in demand”. You can alter that without making phoney moves. Overall it gives you very solid learning experience with swift guidance. My online dating skills (messages and profile making) improved significantly after applying the steps. It’s like learning a new skill from a coach rather than doing it on your own.

Interested?

Come here to check the Insider Internet Dating. You’ll watch a video of Dave presenting the program. If you want to skip the video, simply close the window and then select “stay” in the pop-up.

Note! Dave will offer you some additional products as an “up-sale” when you purchase the course. Keep that in mind.

Disclaimer: This is an affiliate link. Meaning that if you like the product and buy it, it’s most likely that I’ll get a commission. Cards are down.

Sometimes when you browse and look around you stumble upon some very cool things. This is what happened when I was reading a dating blog recently. It’s Rob Judge’s blog post that shares his ten favorite texts that a man can send to a girl. While it’s worth to check out the his entire post of the 10 messages, I’ve selected three of which hit my sweet spot.

The Aristocrat message:

“In the penthouse, listening to Mozart, sipping aged scotch, thinking of you”

It’s not Rob’s text either (credit to still unknown who). It allows you to be romantic yet being awesome at the same time. Very good messages as both “ends” balance themselves. Say two things at once without appearing too much of either. Honestly this text is too cool to stay only on few blogs.

Scrolling Nostalgia:

“Wow Allie C just scrolling thru my phone and realized it’s tragic we never met up. What are you doing later?”

Resurrect old hookups that didn’t get anywhere, re-engage flakes and of course, check out girls numbers which you never met. As Rob said – if you send it there is nothing to lose and everything to gain.

If by X you mean Y then Yes:

“If by pumpkin you mean ravaging sex demon then yes”

Very swift way to avoid and turn a conversation that goes negative path back in the cool. If they throw something in your address that you don’t like, hold your breath and show them you’re bigger than this. It hold the topic on track and shows you got a hold over your ego.

You can modify those messages however you wish to suit your needs. You can also go and check the rest of them on Rob’s blog. Keep in mind when I was browsing there some pop-ups appeared. Since noted, there is nothing you can’t handle, I’m sure.

If you find the topic of texting interesting, be sure to check out the course B4UTXTHER which is especially designed to train your flirting skills via text messages. You can see a free sample of the course in the link.

Share your comments!

Disclaimer: The last link is affiliate link. If you get the course I might get a commission.

Hello friends,

Today’s post will be a guest article about some interesting dating statistics about falling in love on first sight. The observation are made by a UK dating site called Smooch, so if you are in this area, you should check it out. It’s free!

The saying ‘love at first sight’ seems to be more of an urban legend than actual reality, according to a new survey by smooch.

The free dating site asked over 10,000 of its members if they had ever been in love and the findings revealed that only 21% of those surveyed fell in love instantly when they met.

The study found that the most popular love appeared overtime with 40% of respondents admitting that it blossomed gradually. By initially dating online is efficient and free so there is no harm in sending emails back and forth given the fact that dating in person is also free, it doesn’t make a difference (of course, we’re putting drinks and meals out of the equation).

Further results showed that 26% of daters have been in love more than once and that some fell in love at first sight and others it flourished. A minute 13% confessed that they had never even been in love.

Dating online has several benefits because it is less intimidating and more comfortable. It is far easier to find the perfect partner online for the reason that characteristics and qualities can be filtered. Rather than wasting time over a dinner realising that you both have nothing in common, or do not have the same life ethics, ask these questions on a dating site and save yourself the stress and bother.

Brits communicate much more often via technology as it is instant and simple. It is straightforward and effortless to send an email or free chat during the office dinner break than have a phone call or meet in person. Comb through the thousands of people dating online and fall in love in due course over cyberspace.

If you are interested in online dating and sometime struggle with your messages and emails, or you have very low amount of girls writing back, you can check the Push Button Dating course by Race dePriest from the Social Man. I have to say the guy certainly knows what he’s doing and so far his methods work surprisingly well.

Fearless, by The Social Man is out!

It’s an online video course, where Nick Sparks and other guys from the Social Man (as well as guests) are giving you the vital you need to get in action. The program main focus is the interactions between you and the girl, especially the first minutes. Or basically – how to become Fearless with women.

No rehearsed materials, no ready lines, no routines. Just you in your most awesome light.

The main “symptom” a lot of guys have, is getting stuck around very hot women. Those guys are fine with other people and girls they don’t have interested in, but when a very hot girls is on the line, things get nasty.

So…

If you hold yourself back around 9′s and 10′s but you’re otherwise awesome, you owe yourself to check this program.

The idea is to avoid informational overload, which gets guys in their heads and puts them in paralysis analysis mode. Nothing good comes out of that in a moment like this.

And in a moment like this, you have to be your best, when it matters the most. This is what Fearless is about.

Additional info to consider:

• Check out the Fearless report (pdf) upfront.
• Also Check a video where Nick Sparks shows and explains briefly one of the six pillars of Fearless – the confident eye contact with a girl and what definitely you shouldn’t do.

P.s. I’ll update this post for any news around Fearless that come around the next few days.

Not to mention, they got their usual 365 days money back guarantee. As usual The Social Man are pretty confident abut their course.

From the guest speakers, there is Marni from the Wing Girl Method. I got my reservations about her style, but I’ll leave that to your personal judgement.

Disclaimer: The links here are affiliate. If you buy a product using them I may get a commission.

Hello mates,

Summer time and vacation time!

Yet, the dating community does not take it in such way.The guys were busy. There are several new interesting products in the scope of interest. Those may be good enough for your attention and consideration.

Let’s check them one by one.

High Status Humor – launched around two weeks ago (from the date of this post). It’s a online video course that focuses on humor. Not any type of humor but such, that high status guys use. The type that creates attraction and not making you to look foolish. I’m at the beginning of the course and so far it’s ok. It explains some very basic structure of what is funny and how it is working. There are aspects in that course that I wish being a little different, but I’ll leave that for the review. Meanwhile you can check the site of High Status Humor for a quick presentation. Keep in mind there is one of those pesky exit pop-ups. The sneaky forces of the evil internets! Nothing you can’t handle though!

Secrets of the Alpha man – This is a relaunch of existing program of Carlos Xuma. Unfortunately I don’t have the original one and have no idea if this is the same or it’s an updated version. It focuses on the way of the Alpha man’s mindset and how he sees the world. He is giving away a free video of “The 4 Reasons women flake” as part of his launch. You need to opt-in to see the video. Honestly, I have no idea if my time will get to this program. The video looks informing as most of Carloses videos.

Fearless – The Social Man’s new program. It basically focuses on the idea, that too much information can block you. Getting overwhelmed does not help at all, especially when a person is stepping in a new field. I can relate to that very well. Fearless focuses on the minimum information you need to create maximum attraction. No pick up lines, no running routines, no ready material. If you’re interested – subscribe to my newsletter and expect email next week that will reveal details about the program. Some time later a review will follow. The guys from the TSM do certainly deliver (there is an internal launch already)! This is again, online video streaming membership site.

Edit: Fearless pre-launch is getting speed ahead:

In short, if you’re getting stuck/blank near the girls you like and otherwise you don’t have that problem, Fearless may be the thing for you. Leave the maybes and guessing aside, and download the Fearless .pdf report. Beats the information overload. I’m skipping you the usual sales pitch. My advice is – go check the report for yourself. It explains the challenge and the solution. I’ll also email you guys, when the program launches.

New video on how to look a woman you’re attracted to. And how NOT to do it. Go and check it out. Nick Sparks will show you why you should do it, what it says and how to make it. This video is part of the Fearless launch.

Also, pretty soon there will be review of another very nice program – B4UTXTHER, again by the TSM (well, It was about time). It focuses on flirting via text messages, on the cell phone. If you are impatient, you can check the preview here.

So mates, keep cool and stay in touch!

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In every dating advice there is strong emphasis on how important is the practice. Indeed, practice and experience, is something that makes or breaks your success in various fields, including the dating field.

I’m hitting this topic, since there is one very important thing in this whole concept of practicing that many do wrong. This is, again, valid in all areas. One can practice a lot and have very little improvement and at the same time, one can practice little and have significant improvement.

Putting aside natural gifs and talents, this is what usually happens. One guy is getting ahead of others, yet they all practice the same amount of time, doing the same things.

How is that possible?

The difference is, being aware of your practice and the specifics you’re trying to master. Are you just talking to people, or are talking to people, focusing your attention of the way you voice sound? Are you just speaking with girls, or you keep your attention of the way her emotions are expressed on her face?

Just practicing can be inefficient way of learning things, except getting general feeling of the basics. Also, trying everything at once, will lead to getting overwhelmed, thus again practicing inefficiently.

Focused practice, on the other hand, will get you very good at one certain aspect of your area. After you get good at that, you can switch your focus into another aspect. The point is doing it step by step, one at a time. After you feel comfortable with it, go to the next step and then add another one.

Examples of different aspects you can focus, can be:

• Your voice – tone of speaking, speed of talking, clarity of speech;
• Your inner feelings – when you get excited or worried, when the feeling goes up, when it goes down;
• Your body – how you move, how you sit, how your body reacts when you are nervous, how your body behaves when you are relaxed;
• Your awareness of the person in front – what changes their mood, how you can read their current emotional state, how does their face and body changes when you switch topics;
• Your content – the questions you ask, the stories you tell, the teases you make, the way you present them.

The list can go on. The point of it is not to be complete, as to give you direction on what you can focus, each time you practice.

Trying everything at once, especially in the start of each endeavor, will most likely result only in frustration. Honestly, I made that mistake far too many times. Also, just practicing for the sake of practice, can be a little relieving, but is very slow process at getting good at something.

Focusing on single thing each time you practice, will certainly make the difference of getting mediocre and getting good, and then, beyond. It can sometimes get tedious, but when you think about it, there will always be a new detail, you can now see, and focus on.

Keep this in mind next time you are practicing, no matter in front of the mirror or in a real life situation.

What’s the last time you had challenge with trying to learn something new?

You see, a lot of guys aren’t that good with their ability to attract women. And those guys aren’t very happy by this. Some of those very same guys, go and learn pick-up, in order to be able to attract women. However, there is something not many talk about. A lot of those guys, after already have learned to attract women, aren’t very happy overall. Which was their desire on the first place!

A friend of mine had recently troubles with a girl, which he felt for. This got me thinking on something worth sharing.

The default pick-up studies, advice to keep yourself as you are the prize. To treat the girl as your little bratty sister, tease the heck out of her, push and pull tactics, make her jealous, giving her the gift of missing you, acting if you don’t care (because you have tons of other options) and so on. You see the trend here?

Yet, giving the nature of majority of us, humans, this will work, but ONLY if we don’t like the girl that much. If we like the girl, it will make no sense to do all the above mentioned pick-up tactics, because it won’t even feel natural. Many of you probably learned that the hard way. If we meet a girl we really like a lot and we try to do the ‘pick-up routines’, it’s like doing in on purpose. Requires a lot of effort and it’s … it’s fake. At the end, even if we attract the girl, it’s by the fake persona.

Who is she really attracted to? Our genuine selves or that fake pick-up modification of us?

Who do we really want her to be attracted to? Knowing it is you, yourself, or that little dread feeling it wasn’t you at all.

I can bet there isn’t a single man out there, that felt for a woman and didn’t struggle trying to keep the default pick-up decks. The worst part? He did keep up the pick-up, he struggled doing it so and at the very end, he messed up bad, losing the girl. He kept attracting girls he doesn’t like the same way, he liked her.

Of course, I’m not talking about giving the mushy-washy wussy either. There is a masculine way to care about someone, without the need of “negging them” or “not calling them for 6 days”. That is topic for another post.

Next time something like this happens, keep this knowledge in mind. Just admit to yourself you care about that particular person and it will eliminate a lot of that struggling, between being that uber cool seducer and your genuine self.

At the end, you either do care about someone, or you don’t. You can care and act like you don’t, but it will be only an act.

Have you had similar stories? Please, feel free to share!

For most women this is plain obvious, for most men this is a total mystery. The female signs of attraction are something very different from the male signs of attraction, if there is even such thing.

When we men are interested in a woman, most likely, we will glance few times at her. Some men will try get her attention somehow, like being macho type or something else. The most assertive men will probably just go and talk to her.

Women, however, operate in different level. They won’t just plainly show, that they are interested in us. They, for example, will flick their hair, caress some parts of their clothing, give out very subtle looks, position themselves near you and so on…

To women, those signals are obvious. Other women, usually, can spot them very well. We men, on the other hand and most of the time, are completely blind for those subtle female signs of attraction. Usually, men just assume that, if they’re interested in the woman, she must also be interested back. Or reverse – some men, think a woman is not interested in them, because she isn’t approaching them. And at the same time, the same woman, is dying to get approached by the guy.

Fear not friend, the signs of the female attraction can be learned and there are great advantages with that skill.

For example, when you enter a venue, you will be able to quickly filter out which women are interested in you and which didn’t even saw you. This way you will have way more easier time hooking with one of them, not to mention avoiding rejection outright. I mean, when you talk to a girl that is obviously busy with something else, the chances are she’ll try to cut you off. Or her friend nearby.

(Of course that won’t happen if your Brad Pit or George Clooney. However if you are one of them and reading this blog, something very bad happened to the world).

Also, another advantage of knowing the female sings of attraction is, that you’ll able to “read” any social dynamics, invisible to other men, and even sometimes women. You will see who is into who and who can’t wait to get away from who. You’ll be like an expert of those things.

Not to mention, you will be able to see, how well your interaction is going, after you’re already talking to the girl. You’ll be able to avoid embarrassing moment when you make a move and she’s not even interested anymore.

Not knowing those signals, however, can really put you into wasted efforts. Trying to hook up with women, that aren’t interested in you in the first place. I don’t know about you, but this drops my motivation a lot. You also won’t be able to see which woman is interested in you. Might be that cute girl next door, who you always had a crush on, but never expected she will have on you.

So, there is no excuse for this. As a man you will make your life easier when you know the signals of female attraction. I’ve made a quick 7-page Free Report that will show you how to read those signals. You can download it and read it in a few minutes and after few more you’ll know what other men probably never will.