Can you get in?
I remember having a discussion in a forum about are there really girls you can’t get along in having intimate relationships? Are there really girls that no matter what you do they won’t yield?
I believe no.
Fortress unapproachable? No. Every fortress can be taken with the right attack.
In my opinion you can get intimate with all girls (no mentally damaged of course).
You’ll need different approach for sure. It might require a lot of time and effort. You may face a lot of frustration and rejection but at the end you will prevail!
Do this all worth the effort? No, not at all if you ask me.
Running after someone that initially and later don’t want you is waste of time. It usually gives all your power to them and then keep ‘pinging’ them with showing your interest. Days, usually months and sometimes years before they might give you what you want. I’ve seen some people do that – running after a girl for a long time until they have her. And let me tell you that girl wasn’t anything special. Not to mention the stories online (and I bet you have read a lot of them too) of some guy going after a girl for years, was he too afraid to do something (and finding himself in the friend zone) or already rejected but still doing the stubborn pushes.
Personally I was skeptical. Even before I was educating myself in this topic I quit with certain girl after being rejected (or sometimes even before that – wussy stories), frustrated of course. I was feeling emotionally bad and yet the logic seemed to prevail.
Then I saw opposite things and again read opposite stories. Situations that seemed impossible to me were possible. Girls that were plainly and straightly rejecting certain guy were going out with him and becoming his girlfriend (and completely reversing the who’s in power situation!). Of course after some digging I saw that the guys were persistent like cockroach and of course – proactive. Staying home regretting didn’t help.
They were usually giving all their power to the girl yet stayed determined in their goal, which may ultimately have created attraction.
The problem then comes with the investment of time and effort. They have invested so much in this that they will stay and take a lot of crap from the girl (or sometimes reversed). Their relationship may be horrible but the investment they made so far is so big that they will continue to defend it. Everyone defends his investment somehow (Watch Revolver, pretty witty movie).
The funny thing is if that guy actually stop chasing her and goes on with his life for few years, then he sees the same girl again, he will see a completely different person, probably not that attractive anymore. I’ve had few of those experiences. People change constantly and their perception of the world and their desires also changes with them.
So, my end answer again – yes – definitely possible, and no – isn’t worth it.
