Approach Anxiety Annihilator

Name: Approach Anxiety Annihilator
Author: Carlos Xuma
Format: ebook (pdf)
Readability: Easy
Level: Novice
Category: Inner Game / Approaching
Volume: 21 pages
Cost: Free (download Approach Anxiety Annihilator)

This is one of Carloses free books he is giving away. The topic is how to cure the approach anxiety most of us have when going to unknown girls. I know, I know there are a lot of stuff on this topic out there. I read quite a lot of those, most of them were useless advices what ‘you suppose to do’ and ‘how you suppose to feel’. Yeah thanks for nothing, if I was feeling and doing that I wasn’t be looking for that advice at first place, do I?

Let’s get to the point

Carlos shows this very powerful concept: If we learn how to give without expecting to get, we will cure the approach anxiety. Why is that? Because we won’t expect any outcome of our approach. It actually takes practice to get used to giving away without expecting anything (even positive feedback) in return. Kinda makes a lot of sense.

The book begins with concept about where actually our approach anxiety comes from. The limiting believes we probably implanted into our childhood and the mistake many guys make. Carlos continues with principles from the martial arts where pure block is inefficient and quite energy consuming. You have to use it’s force against it, otherwise it creates resistance. As martial art student I can confirm that.

Remember the saying “You can’t force a good thing” ? Ok, this is actually translation from my native language and I actually have no idea if there is something similar in English. The idea is that if you try to convince yourself not to think about the approach anxiety, you only make it stronger. It’s how our mind work…the damn bugger.

Then we dig in the concept I talked about earlier – the giving without expecting to get concept. How to get it? Carlos shows few step techniques that will help you build that mindset which changes the whole view on conversations with people. And then after you beat that approach anxiety down, you can focus on social skills and approach models (this is actually not in the booklet). Very simple, easy and effective.

Overall:

One of the best free ebooks available on the net in my oppinion. Great content, simple yet straigh to the point and practical advice. It doesn’t go deep or wide, don’t expect that.

Of course as almost every free ebook this ends with promo and a fun quiz. The quiz is quite cool actually, you can check it out when you download the ebook.

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Wes M