Pandora’s Box Review

Name: Pandora’s Box
Author: Vin DiCarlo
Format: Video streaming (online membership site)
Readability: Easy
Level: Intermediate*
Category: conceptual, psychology
Volume: Length 3 hours of video + transcribes of the videos and 8 personality types ebook.
Cost: $ 100 $ 69.95 (go check Pandora’s Box) plus 14 days money back guarantee (with upgrade options)

You know that there are a lot of systems out there on the internet on dating advice right? The advices of some are very different from the advices on others. Some say one trait is important, other say this trait doesn’t matter. One say this is how it works, another claims it works different way. And this my friend is very confusing.

You know the funny part? Most of those systems work. There are people doing it and getting results. But not all people get that same result.

There is one very simple thing that many just pass by – we live in a world of very different types of people. And different people are motivated by different things, learn different way, have different goals, have different desires. And very, very little dating advice programs out there take this thing in mind. Every guru attracts the women he want with the approach he knows. But do you want the girls he wants? Is that the same approach you’ll be using to get different girls? Hell no!

Pandora’s Box is Vin DiCarlos system that takes in consideration the different personality types in women, explains why usually they have such personalities and most importantly – gives you way to modify your approach for that particular type of girls.

Before I get into the details – There was a time that I was using, lets say wrong approaches, thus I was attracting girls that are not particularly my type and in the same time was wondering why I get to nowhere with the types I wanted. I felt there was something more than this. And there was.

Technical Details:

This is video course that you can watch online on a membership site. It’s separated in around 10 mini videos that introduces you in the concept of different personality types of women. It’s really easy to understand. The guys give you the info step by step so you don’t get overwhelmed. You also get a reference ebook with the 8 different personality types of girls (later on that). You also get online test to quickly check the girl type by answering simple cue questions. That test wasn’t very accurate in my experience but even the guys don’t claim it to be 100% accurate. However, when you know the concept – the big picture, you won’t be needing this test anyways.

Detailed View:

From the experience of Vin and his friends, he noticed that some girls have different reactions on the same, let’s say trigger. This brought his team into research.

They’ve managed to level down the concepts into three different categories each with two positions each. Before I get into that, keep in mind this is fluid concept. Usually the women tend to switch positions in that category with time and most of the times they end in one of the two positions.

The categories are as follows:

1. Selection type:

This is how the girl selects the perfect boyfriend and potential mate for her. According Vin typically we see those 2 types here:

• The girls that date many men and if they find the “right one” they tend to settle with him. Those women have no problem dating a lot of guys at the same time.
• The other type dates only one guy and invests in him i.e. try to improve him so he becomes the “right one”. They stick with the same guy for a long time even he might seem pretty bad match.

Those two kind of traits in women actually play big role in how they select a potential mate.

2. Sexual type:

This is how a girl is looking on the concept of sex and related topics. The 2 types here are:

• The girl that sees sex as something sacred and special. She will share it only for special guys for her and typically won’t be so open in the sexual topic right away. Definitely not your type for one night stands.
• The other type sees sex as something normal. It’s not a big deal for her and she have no problem discussing this topic. It’s normal for her to sleep with a guy if she feels attracted to him.

Those two approach the whole sexual thing very differently. For example one might freak out if you advance way too fast, and the other may see you as weak if you don’t! This is probably one of the most important concept in your approach on different women.

3. Relationship type

Basically here the women are divided in the way they see the world.

• The first type sees it as she is a princess waiting for her prince to come sweep her away and live happily after. Just as in the tales.
• The second one is learning to provide for herself and not expecting a man to come and take care of her in such fairy tale stereotype. Those women are generally more carrier focused and can support themselves with no problem.

When you mixed all that 3 categories and 2 positions each – you get Eight types of women. The program comes with booklet with the typical traits of those 8 types of women and of course – how to handle them. The info here is a little bit short so my suggestion is to use it in a general concept. You won’t have step by step manual for each type of women. My personal advice is not to position yourself 100% on that types. Humans are fluid creatures and are generally not created with categories stamped on their forehead. They fit those categories, but as Vin will tell you – they tend to move from one to another with the progress in their life.

Note – the program also comes with two extensions which I don’t have at this point. Both are in the topic of sexual escalation and sex with the different types of women. If someday I get them I’ll put separate reviews for them.

Bonuses:

You’ll go a two weak trial for some weekly course Vin includes in the program. Keep in mind though that if you don’t want to be extra billed for the rest of the course you can cancel. I’m with mixed feelings about this – it’s good, but it’s not cheap – around 24$ per week. You can see for yourself if it fits you in that trial period.

You’ll also get a ticket to a “secret seminar” in New York City and if you can’t attend – you’ll also get the reply of that. At this point I have no idea when this will happen.

Overall:

Making simple profiles of the girls you meet is very new concept for the whole dating advice topic. I personally would like more such approach on products as they’ll be far more effective on success and ability to learn the skills in the program.

Especially if you’ve been in that topic for a while, it’s like the missing link that makes all other dating products make a lot more sense. This gives very big insight why some of some approaches sometimes work and sometimes don’t. Also why the different advices out there are … well … different. It’s simple because the different gurus target different type of woman!

Now I’m the last guy that will tell you to fix yourself to stereotypes. As I told you – stereotypes do help a lot in filtering people and situations – so use that well. Don’t however take them on 100%, as you will meet exceptions. When you use that as a general guideline – you’ll do ten times better than the rest of the population out there. And when you recognize a girl type, you’ll will tweak your approach (or if not your type ditch the interaction at all) so she will be understanding you more clearly.

Who will benefit most of it:

If you are interested in psychology, personality types and general idea how things work (the big picture) – you’ll find the program pretty interesting. A whole new approach! If you also were into dating advice and had some blank spots/mixed results why sometimes it works and sometimes don’t this will help you see through them.

Who might not need this:

If you have inner issues with the dating field – this won’ be the program for you as it doesn’t address any of them. If you’re also good with the women you want and happy with the results you get – then you probably won’t need this.

Go check out Pandora’s Box here!

Update: I removed the annoying video on the link. It now leads to the program itself. No more wasting your time! Anyway, If you want to see the video, check out at the bottom of the page.

Pros:

• Whole new concept – girl personality types;
• Adds to all your previous experience with women – it makes it a lot more clear now;
• Allows you focus on the types of girls you want rather than just give you general approach on the guru’s favorite type.
• *You don’ need to be pickup artist or guru to benefit from this program – you’ll get general clue how different women out there think.

Cons:

• The program is highly conceptual – you won’t find step by step instructions;
• It won’t focus on your issues with women if you have some – no advice on overcoming fears, general concept or inner game at all;
• It isn’t getting into much details in the different women with the core. You’ll have to take the weekly course for detail analysis of each type of girl – and that costs ~$24 per week.

Found this interesting? Check out the Pandora’s Box course or a video about the program (long one).

Note: Pandora’s box is back online with reduced price by $ 30!

Wes M